Introduction

The second trimester of pregnancy is often portrayed in various forms as a time of joy and hopeful expectation. But to some women, the post-delivery stage of their lives becomes something else, a challenge. Disappointment with Life, or in particular with Fatherhood, is predominantly seen as a condition. While it can contribute to the theories of meaning of having children and indeed who cares about it, the attitude towards this whole thing is misguided. Post-pregnancy depression has to be recognised and proven to affect the mother and the child in one way or the other. This paper will outline what PPD is, its causes, effects, and those problems it creates while dealing with the first one: what can be done to help you or someone close at what should be the brightest time?


What is Post-Pregnancy Depression?


Loss of PPD may be one of the Post-natal depression illnesses complained by mothers after delivery. Unlike ‘baby blues’ which, are usual and subsist only for a couple of weeks after the delivery, PPD has more intensity and may become chronic. One thing that the general population has to appreciate is the fact that PPD has nothing to do with weak personalities or that one is rash and simply snap out of it. It’s a health problem that needs attention and care.


Symptoms of Post-Pregnancy Depression


PPD like any other psychological disorder manifests itself through symptoms whatever these may be: Depressed mood: The mother consistently feels depressed or numb; when feeling saddest should be his/her best moments.


Extreme fatigue: Refers to the state of tiredness one has constantly due to fatigue even after adequate rest has been observed.


Irritability or anger: The tendency to be aggravated or incensed easily even in the absence of a substantiated cause.


Difficulty bonding with the baby: A parent or relatives feeling numb or unable to relate to the little bundle they have just brought home.


Anxiety: So much apprehension and panic attacks, mostly about the responsibilities and challenges surrounding the yet-to-be-born child.


Changes in appetite: There are those who tend to overeat while some may skip meals.


Sleep disturbances: There are those who cannot sleep while others sleep like a log, irrespective of the infant’s sleeping patterns.


Thoughts of harming yourself or the baby: It is worth noting that some demographic even as far as women's conception depression provoked thoughts of self-harm and even violence against their child. Such a condition is life-threatening for both the woman and her child in cases such as this.


Causes and Risk Factors


Again, one reason is insufficient to explain this condition; instead, much may be said from both physical and biomental perspectives:


Hormonal changes: First of all, we can highlight the most common reason of postpartum depression which is hormonal imbalance resulting from childbirth as the body is stripped of the reproductive hormones especially estrogen and progesterone.


History of mental health issues: The risk factors particularly address a woman who has a history of issues regarding depression and anxiety where postnatal depression comes in.


Lack of support: Such women may also be alone in their house without emotional support from their spouse or practical assistance from relatives and friends per the domestic duties.


Stressful life events: Financial problems, relationship issues, or complications during childbirth can contribute to the development of PPD.


Understanding the Significance of support


One of the most important aspects of post pregnancy depression management is support. This support might come from:


Medical Professional Services


Therapy: Talking to a therapist focusing on post-partum problems can help in expressing your worries and identifying ways of tackling and controlling your reaction.


Medication: If constituents of depression are identified, medicine to counter the depression may be offered to reduce those chemicals in your brain. Normally these are to be taken with a doctor’s advice and especially if one is breastfeeding.


Support Groups: One can also find it helpful to join a circle of other mothers since they are able to share their thoughts and feelings and offer support.


Self Support System


Partner and Family: Do not shy away from seeking help from your partner and other members of the family in baby care or household chores. Simply having someone to talk to can be a big help at times.


Friends: Involvement with friends and women especially mothers can be able to give emotional and practical assistance to the mothers and the mothers to be.


Practical Strategies to Cope with Post Pregnancy Depression


Even though you should seek professional intervention, there are also things that can be done to control the symptoms and aid in the healing process:


Don’t Forget About Yourself


Sleep: Try to sleep whenever possible. Lack of sleep can make depression worse, so in the afternoon baby naps whenever possible and grab some sleep.


Nutrition: A well-balanced diet can increase your mood and energy levels. Have them concentrated around fruits and vegetables, lean meat and whole grains.


Exercise: Exercise is also helpful in enhancing the mood by releasing endorphins. Just taking a short walk does the trick. Start slow and increase the more active you become.


Be An Open Book


Discuss Your Feelings: It may be a spouse, a friend, therapist or even athletes but whatever you choose, talking about feelings and emotions helps in not just coping with stress but dealing with it effectively.


If You Are Talking to a Healthcare Provider, Then Be Completely Honest: In regard to symptoms do not be shy when, and talking to the doctor tell them what’s bothering you. They may have resources and ideas on treatments that would be appropriate.


Be Prepared to Compromise


Let Others Help: It is acceptable to allow other people to take up some of the chores. It is not a must that one has to be active in everything.


Be Gentle with Yourself: Motherhood is a life-altering transition. At the onset, please extend some discomfort to yourself and realize that it is common to find things difficult.


Participate in Activities that you like


Hobbies: If at all, please make time for enjoyable actions whether it is book writing, knitting or even engaging in music.


Socializing: Even one on one engaging with someone even for coffee can cheer one up.


Adopt Mindfulness and Relaxation Practices


Meditation: When feeling anxious, clear-mindedness meditation resolves this issue effectively as long as one practices this.


Deep Breathing: One possible way out is breathing exercises although where the exhale is somewhat advanced compared to the inhaling action, able to achieve an effect of relaxation or stress reduction.


Conclusion: There is Hope Against the PPD


The postnatal depression is not only scary but also curable. When you are or when someone you know is in this position, it is a must to ask for assistance. Although the recovery process takes time, it is possible with the help of appropriate materials/assistance, to do away with the PPD and enjoy being a mother. You should always remember that you are not the only one and asking for nursing helps instead of being mad or crying.


Most Common Questions


What are the “baby blues” and how are they different from postpartum depression?


The “baby blues”, most women report, are seen in a majority of mothers and are temporary, going away within a fortnight after giving birth. These are emotional manifestations such as fluctuations in mood, weeping, and anxiety. While postpartum depression is a clinical mood disorder that is usually more severe, and chronic, for which one needs treatment.


What is the time-frame for development of postpartum depression after giving birth?


Post-partum depression can happen anytime in the first year after childbirth but most often, it manifest onset in the several weeks it most apparent after childbirth.


Are any fathers affected by postpartum depression?


Similarly, maternal depression is termed paternal post pregnancy depression experienced by fathers in most instances as a result of the stresses and changes that come along with parental responsibilities.


Is it advisable to take antidepressants during lactation?


Most antidepressants do not affect breastfeeding hence are safe when breastfeeding; it is, however, advisable to consult medically so as to select the appropriate drug for use.


How can I assist a family member who is suffering from post-pregnancy depression?


The most effective ways include provision of emotional support, sufficiently assisting with cleaning the house and carrying out other baby related chores, and supporting them in pursuit of professional assistance.

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